4 Months from today I will wake up laying next to my husband. Wow. Typing that feels so strange, and yet so very right. 4 months from yesterday will be the biggest, most exciting day of our lives. While I sit here and think that it’s still such a long time to wait emotionally (we have been more than halfway tempted to elope several times so far), I know that realistically it is no time at all. The checklist of major wedding planning things has gotten a lot smaller, but that has all of the little tedious things still undone.
So far we have accomplished:
- Wedding dress
- Bridesmaids dresses
- Church and Venue
- Invites (are printed and on there way to me as I type)
- 99% sure on the DJ (just need to officially deposit and book it
- Mom has a mother of the bride dress
- Shower/bachelorette dates
- Groom and Groomsmen attire chosen
- My wedding ring purchased (just over a week after we got engaged..)
- 90% on Erik’s wedding ring choice (big step forward)
- Registries at 3 places
- Salon for getting beautified chosen
I’d say…I hope we’re doing pretty well. Up until this point I have a been a pretty easy, stress free bride, and I really hope I can manage to stay that way. Addressing the invitations has been stressing me out a bit, but we are using clear, classing looking labels (don’t judge, all of you “invites should be hand written” people…You have no idea how my handwriting looks..) which makes it easier….until the excel sheet doesn’t import correctly and you are stuck using copy/paste for last names and addresses of around 110 people. That’s how I spent several hours yesterday, and even then I had about a dozen and a half that printed oddly because I originally tried mail merge first.
Technology is great until it fails you… *sigh*
Now is the time I start thinking about favors and place cards (I think we are using cute coasters, which knocks out two birds with one stone), what jewelry and shoes I’m going to wear (and what I want my girls to wear), bridesmaid gifts, a gift for my soon to be hubby on the big day, and fretting about organizing life when RSVP cards start to come in. It’s all so much fun and yet I find myself easily overwhelmed as well. I hope I get some leeway with my stress level because I have no help in Chapel Hill with me. Erik helps when he can, but it’s more about knowing I have help available when I ask for it, which I know I won’t always have here (as proven by the fact he didn’t get home until after 2am last night..). Despite all of that, I know that when I get stressed out about any of it, he will take the two seconds he has to give me a hug, a kiss and tell me it’s going to be fine. If he has more than two seconds and I’m stressing about a task I’m actually doing rather than the thought of something (believe me, my thoughts stress me out 50 times harder than my actual tasks), I know he’ll offer to help when he can. I’m reminded every day how lucky I am to be marrying this man, and I can’t wait to call him my husband.
While the little tasks are starting to pile up I still have a hard time believing what an easy process this has been so far. I have an amazing fiancé, connections back home that are helping with everything: (Thank you again, Mike for EVERYTHING.), a friend from church doing invites, my aunt’s best friend doing my centerpieces (don’t worry, she’s a multi million dollar contracted architect and designer..I trust her), my sister’s bff for hooking us up with a great media team, and my mom (and future in-laws) being so wonderful throughout the whole process.
I am such a blessed woman.
4-months to go 🙂